This makes me sad, and I know it is because I am always looking for a positive motivator. I hope it helps because I really don’t feel like I have one. I don’t feel inspired, happy-go-lucky, or really motivated about anything. I just feel like I am being sucked into the negative cycle of life.
I think this is a common theme in our society. When we feel down, depressed, or low on motivation, we look for something to cheer us up. Maybe it’s something that will help us feel better. This is usually some form of self-help book, or some motivational video that we watch on YouTube. When we have a goal to achieve or something to look forward to, we often become so obsessed with it that it takes over our lives.
The only way to get off this train is to not allow it to control our lives. If you need help on how to start feeling better, look no further than the simple things that you can do to help yourself. The first step toward feeling better is to remove the things that feed you into this negative cycle. By simply focusing on yourself, you will begin to feel better. And that’s a lot easier than trying to fix something that you can’t see.
If you’re constantly worried about how you’re doing, or that you’re not good enough, or that you’re wasting your time, or that you have bad habits, chances are you are dealing with something that has the potential to keep you stuck in these unhealthy relationships. The first step in this process, is to identify the pattern, so that you can cut it out. This is the first step in a process that can take weeks to complete.
The second step is to identify what you are doing that is keeping you stuck. If youre constantly worried about your money, your health, your relationships, your job, or your social life, chances are you are dealing with something that has the potential to keep you stuck, and in the process, keep you stuck until you can solve the problem. This is what I call the “fixer” stage.
As you may know, the fixer stage is where we take steps to make ourselves feel better about the problem. We come to the realization that the problem is actually about something we’re doing that is keeping us stuck, and we realize that the problem is something we should be dealing with. Then we can cut it out.
In the past, when I have faced personal pain I have always found it helpful to talk to myself. That was because when I was in pain, I was doing it for the wrong reasons. I was doing it to avoid something I didn’t want, or avoid something I didn’t have control over. This time around I am in pain because I have a habit I have to break. That means that when I am stuck, I am doing it for the wrong reasons.
We don’t get what we want. We don’t get what we don’t get. We are all part of the game. We don’t get what we want. We are not able to get what we don’t get. You can always find a way to get what you want, but you have to find the solution for it.
I think that’s a great lesson for all of us. It’s so easy to say we’re not going to get what we want, but I guess that’s the opposite of what we want to do all the time.
If you want to get something you have to get yourself there first. I guess one thing I could relate to when it comes to motivation, is that a lot of times we are just so in love with our current situation. To get out of that situation, we have to make it happen. A lot of times we are so busy and so consumed with what we want that we don’t take the time to be on a high, like you or I might have when things are going well.
